Jessica Biel and husband Justin Timberlake have been showbiz children, however that does not imply they’re eager on their very own sons — Silas, 6, and 11-month-old Phineas — following of their footsteps.
“My knee-jerk reaction is: Oh, god, no. Please no,” Biel, 39, stated on Monday’s Armchair Expert podcast. “But then I look at these kids and I’m like: Oh, sh*t. They’re probably going to be musical. What are you going to do — not let them play the piano? Or not let them take a voice lessons if that’s their passion?”
The actress and producer talked about her mother and father letting her pursue her showbiz goals — and just a little present known as seventh Heaven made her a star. Of course, Timberlake had already been on The All-New Mickey Mouse Club by then — and was in just a little band known as NSYNC at 14.
“They would’t have stifled my dream,” she stated of her mother and father. “They weren’t those type of people. I don’t want to be that parent to stifle a dream. But … I would so much rather them be [engineers] or something.”
She admitted she’d particularly “worry” if “my kids want to be musicians,” because the sons of a world music famous person. “The bar is high. And they’re boys. I worry about [them fearing]: ‘I can never be as good as my dad.’ Please god let them better,” she laughed, however admitted, “That’s what’s daunting, for sure.”
While a lot consideration was paid to Biel as she navigated younger stardom within the ’90s and ’00s — so far as who she was relationship and what number of articles of clothes she (or wasn’t) was carrying on that issue of Gear magazine in 2000 — she thinks younger stars right now have it worse.
“No camera phone. No social media. There was none of it,” Biel stated of the period. “There were paparazzi but it wasn’t the same… When you’re a young person and you’re stepping into this business now? You have to step in with the knowledge, yeah, your anonymity is gone. You are going to be raked over the coals all over social no matter what you say. Your whole life is going to be on social because that’s the thing. It’s different now.”
And that is not even the worst half, she stated. “I think it’s all the emotional part of [being in showbiz] that’s terrifying,” Biel stated. “The intense rejection. The self-worth. the access to everything. How do you not go off the deep-end in a lot of different ways — or become an asshole because you can just have whatever you want?”
Asked if she and Timberlake bonded over their child-star pasts, she stated, “I think so. Not tangibly at first. [It was more:] Oh, there’s a vibe. He’s cute. He’s nice. I’m into it. You don’t really think: Wow, we have so many parallel experiences. It’s more like now as we’re parents, and we’re older, and still going through our own sh**, and all our old traumas, and all the good stuff and everything, that does kind of come up a lot where we just kind of get it. It’s like an unspoken: I know what that’s like. You know what that’s like.”
Biel spoke about welcoming their “secret COVID baby,” Phineas, in the course of the pandemic. “It wasn’t supposed to be a secret. It was just COVID happened and then [we] went to Montana with my family and never left.”
By the time Phineas arrived, restrictions allowed for Timberlake to be within the hospital with her, she stated. “There was a moment there that nobody was allowed. I was really getting nervous about that situation. If I had to be there alone … I would have been really scared.”
Biel admitted coping with a new child once more after a number of years was an adjustment.
“Someone said to me two [kids] is like 1,000 — and that’s exactly what it feels like. The balance of everything is very different and super hard,” she stated. “I forgot what happens to you as a person, as a human, with your partner, with your sleep schedule… I’m happy we’re 11 months in cause it was serious. You forget on purpose.”
She additionally famous Silas has grown up a lot. They’re having conversations now that “are so cool — like he’s a real person, saying the funniest stuff. He’s so sensitive and tender.” And “the little one is just cute as hell,” stated Biel, who felt fortunate to have additional time, amid the pandemic, to bond with Phineas.
“I don’t know even how to be away from this person,” she stated. “Literally, because of COVID, I haven’t spent any time away from this little guy. If the world had been normal, I would have spent some more time away, and maybe even worked before this point.” So “It was a huge blessing to not be pulled in many directions.”
Biel stated she is aware of it will not final. She additionally talked about doubtlessly hitting the street with her household for Timberlake’s subsequent tour.
“Yeah, depending on what it looks like and where in the world it is,” Biel stated. “It’s such a unique experience [and] we want these little boys to see daddy on stage. He’s not going to do it like this forever — I’m speaking for him, [so] I may be way off — but I think there’s something about [showing the kids]: I went after my dream. I’m working really hard. See this whole thing?”
Biel talked about how Timberlake integrated a room they dubbed “PJ Masks Headquarters” into his final tour so Silas had a spot to decompress. But was additionally in a position to go searching every empty enviornment, see his dad do soundcheck, have dinner as a household and even catch a part of the concert events.
“We just like to be together,” she stated of the Biel-Timberlake crew. “The family unit together is really supportive for the boys. And it’s really nurturing for me [and] it’s really nurturing for him.”
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